http://www.odarygh.com/2009/09/05/polyamory-i-dont-get-it/ To have an opinion; to judge; to think; to suppose Fri, 03 Feb 2012 17:18:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://www.odarygh.com/2009/09/05/polyamory-i-dont-get-it/comment-page-1/#comment-176 PolyNorge.no Fri, 11 Sep 2009 21:26:05 +0000 http://www.odarygh.com/?p=115#comment-176 You don´t have to get it. It functions for a lot of people. What makes a person a good polyamorous person, is the same as what makes a good monoamourous person. Keeping appointments. There is a little more of them in a polyamourous relationship and they are not so "automatic" as in a monoamourous relationship. If you have problems with one relationship, the solution is not just to add another. But the choice of two loved ones brings other gifts and require other skills. Not everyone is made for it, or is ready to take the steps needed to become a good polyamourous person. Nothing is better than the other, it´s just different. Some like vanilla or chocolate, others like vanilla and chocolate. You don´t have to get it. It functions for a lot of people. What makes a person a good polyamorous person, is the same as what makes a good monoamourous person. Keeping appointments. There is a little more of them in a polyamourous relationship and they are not so “automatic” as in a monoamourous relationship. If you have problems with one relationship, the solution is not just to add another. But the choice of two loved ones brings other gifts and require other skills. Not everyone is made for it, or is ready to take the steps needed to become a good polyamourous person. Nothing is better than the other, it´s just different. Some like vanilla or chocolate, others like vanilla and chocolate.

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